It looks like the VA/MD waypoiint actually needs more recentering than it does moving due to the new bridge. On account of the state line being at the VA shore of the river, the two bridges are much closer together there.
Anyway I'm good with including the closed points in case anyone wants to mark it as a declinch (I won't, but why take the option away from those who want to?)
Since the bridge is majority in MD and that's my state I'm gonna go ahead and take care of this.
EDIT:
https://github.com/TravelMapping/HighwayData/pull/6072I'd @mapmikey in the git comment but he doesn't appear to have an account.